Style in your 30s | What I’ve stopped wearing in my 30s

Style in your 30s | What I’ve stopped wearing in my 30s

Style in your 30s | What to stop wearing in your 30s. Knowing what to wear in your 30’s can be a whole new challenge. We change so much from our 20s and sometimes it can feel overwhelming or sad to say goodbye to the styles we wore to death for an entire decade. In your 30s you tend to feel more like a woman. More comfortable in your skin and with your own beauty. This means we value different features are parts of ourselves, so we want to accentuate completely different areas of our body or outfit. It can be hard to throw out items and style that you have loved for years but it can also be like a rebirth. It can be so exciting to explore this new, mature and elegant new you.

Clothes and fashion is to be enjoyed. So remember that anyone else’s style and fashion tips are really just a matter of opinion. Wear what makes you happy.

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  1. sourabha singh on July 14, 2021 at 2:20 am

    Man your way of presenting a video is really awesome, and you are damn beautiful ❤️❤️

  2. ⑦ⓐⓦⓐⓐ on July 14, 2021 at 2:21 am

    I totally agree with you.

  3. sammy k on July 14, 2021 at 2:23 am

    I have asperger’s, and it has always been difficult to choose clothes that fit my age, body shape, what have you. Your guide is very helpful, as I have been developing an interest in fashion due to finally being employed. My old clothes are from 10 years ago, and I’m in the process of developing a mature but youthful style.

  4. HelloSunshine on July 14, 2021 at 2:24 am

    Question for whoever, where do you shop in your 30s in the US? I keep going to Forever21 & I can’t find anything anymore. I’m 31

  5. Kathryn Bowles on July 14, 2021 at 2:24 am

    I honestly love this. I’m turning 27 this year and lately I just look at my closet and I’m struggling. A&F is my go to and they have some nice modest stuff but still feels young

  6. Kimberly Perrotis on July 14, 2021 at 2:27 am

    I enjoyed this, my first viewing of one of your videos, but I found the sound quality very tinny, like there are just all hard surfaces in the room (which makes sense for our warm climates, I’m in California). Would you consider getting a clip-on microphone? Thanks, looking forward to more of your videos.

  7. Elyse Mooney MUA on July 14, 2021 at 2:28 am

    I’m 26 turning 27 this year and I don’t know if I should be watching this video, feels like I’m preparing for my transition into my 30s.

  8. wells on July 14, 2021 at 2:30 am

    So basically you’re talking about dressing modest. Anyone at any age should prob follow that guideline. Why is showing skin “young?” If anything it’s even more inappropriate for a young person.

  9. Estrella Luz on July 14, 2021 at 2:33 am

    Jeez, You sound like a 60 year old! It’s not the 1950s anymore. I’m 33 and don’t have Kids, so i wear whatever i want. That’s a matter of personal choice and i hate the more modest, corny look. If you have it, flaunt it.

  10. Sirisha Kuchibhotla on July 14, 2021 at 2:34 am

    Your voice can be less shreiky ..that’s mature

  11. Lex Nicole on July 14, 2021 at 2:35 am

    I agree with you ! I’m turning 30 next month but I also don’t have any children.

  12. Cj90 xxx on July 14, 2021 at 2:35 am

    I think this is a bit of a snobby approach. Saying people are lazy for wearing dirty trainers, who are you trying to impress? At 31 I’ve got past what people think. I think this kind of thing is what creates confidence issues in people. All these "tips" are to make yourself more acceptable to others. Its wrong!

  13. Perla Cruz on July 14, 2021 at 2:36 am

    people just want to hear what they want to hear.

  14. Gina C on July 14, 2021 at 2:36 am

    I agree with all the points made, except one – a fringe. Some people, myself included, actually look better with a fringe in their 30s. Without it people have said I look more serious and that the fringe looks more relaxed and youthful on me. Other women in their 30s who suit fringes (better than without) include Zooey Deschanel, Jameela Jamil and a Canadian blogger Joy McCarthy. They all look amazing with fringes. Plus it hides forehead wrinkles! I’ll most likely stick with a fringe as without one it seems to age me.

  15. Keisha C. on July 14, 2021 at 2:36 am

    I’ve learned that I’ve grown into my confidence now in my mid 30s so I say to each their own. Especially with trends being different in different countries and cultures.

  16. Angela on July 14, 2021 at 2:37 am

    I strongly disagree with this! My perspective is whatever makes you feel sexy and what you’re comfortable in and your own skin that makes you feel confident own it. Today’s 30’s are not the 30s from 50 years ago where women now in their 30s still look like they’re in their 20s because they know about proper nutrition, exercise, great skin care a lot of women in their 30s can still pull off looking like they’re in their mid to late 20s. I feel like for work attire I see her perspective that you don’t want to wear mini skirts and polyester hot pink polka dot blazers to work when you’re a professional in your 30s to be taken seriously in your career. But in your personal life live your life it’s too damn short. I’m 35 I work out 7 days a week I’m a vegetarian and I have a body and my husband loves that I wear things that are fitted I live in Florida I have a great stomach so if I want to wear a crop top with skinny jeans I’m going to do it and if nobody likes it don’t look cuz it’s for me anyway. Live honey live.

  17. LilyLilac on July 14, 2021 at 2:38 am

    I’m 33 and don’t show alot of skin but my clothes and hair always have an edge.

  18. Kazabella12 Mind Body Spirit on July 14, 2021 at 2:38 am

    You’re amazing this was very helpful ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  19. Jess S on July 14, 2021 at 2:40 am

    I mostly agree with these! For sure have gone through similar phases. I’m in my late 30s and I just started wearing shorts (not bootie)! I’ve always hidden my legs, but finally just don’t care. Also will always wear mini skirts, but only in the winter with opaque tights! 😁

  20. Turony Alexandra Mihaela on July 14, 2021 at 2:44 am

    I am 33 and today I would give up my favorite knee-length leather skirt forever, it has been my favorite since I was 25 years old ! Thanks!

  21. Eck22 on July 14, 2021 at 2:45 am

    Women wear whatever you want, specially if you have the body, and even if you don’t. Who cares!!!! As long as you feel comfortable don’t let something like age define what you should or shouldn’t wear. Of course everything is better when you still make it look classy. The one thing I’d say don’t wear is dirty looking shoes or sandals, clean your shoes specially the white once. I’m 35 and I wear crop tops, shorts, braletts, you can wear all this things and still look mature, it depends how you convine it 😆

  22. LifewithminiCuties on July 14, 2021 at 2:45 am

    I agree love I’m a mom of 3 as well turning 30 this year

  23. Emily King on July 14, 2021 at 2:46 am

    Love all of these! Great video. Can you share your favorite brands to get looks for our 30s?

  24. E113 Jelly on July 14, 2021 at 2:46 am

    It’s Funny because now in my late 20s Im showing more boobs because they’ve grown from my early 20s 😂

  25. Mommy Vee on July 14, 2021 at 2:49 am

    in my opinion… it doesn’t really matter what you wear as long as you don’t look funny. In my 20’s I started to love wearing short dresses and stilettos and now in my 30s I started wearing long draped dresses and usually plain and dark. But my parents don’t like it. but everyone else loves it. so… it’s really up to you.

  26. Jess S on July 14, 2021 at 2:50 am

    I think you are feeling more simplistic classic style at this point. I totally disagree with the last one. If you like a trend wear it. Who cares who else is wearing it. If teenagers are wearing it and I like it. I’m still doing it. Same with the opposite. If I don’t like a trend, I’m not wearing it. Maybe I should stop wearing high rise mom jeans and high top converse because teenagers like them too. No middle part. That’s what teenagers do.

  27. 00 00 on July 14, 2021 at 2:51 am

    In other words dress like a sexless, frumpy, boring matron and don’t be poor.

  28. Devi Maren on July 14, 2021 at 2:52 am

    I think thats ok show some skin in ellegant way,as long as we able to maintain our body tone and fitness

  29. Grdenia podcast on July 14, 2021 at 2:52 am

    Agreed with you but I have small advices to everyone please Wear what you like, and if you’re comfortable and happy, that’s what suits you.

  30. Miki Mannikin on July 14, 2021 at 2:53 am

    Sadlz, clothing shops make trends for teens. The trend I started to follow from my 27 is to learn how to sew clothes myself.

  31. Stephie on July 14, 2021 at 2:53 am

    I kinda feel the opposite I think young 20’s should hold off on showing too much as I’ve gotten older I feel like I’m more confident in my own skin, with that being said showing skin usually looks better when it is balanced. And also if you have the body for it and feel comfortable wear whatever the hell you want. I’m in my 30’s not my 60’s and as long as I look good when I look back at my pictures I can care less, I don’t follow trends anyway.

  32. Blue Fish on July 14, 2021 at 2:54 am

    Wear what you want.

  33. LifewithminiCuties on July 14, 2021 at 2:58 am

    Yes I was always a less is more kinda gal. I Iove your channel

  34. Kimberly Perrotis on July 14, 2021 at 2:58 am

    It grosses me out when someone with those really long fake nails prepares my food, you can see all the dirt that they can’t, when they move their hands. The shorter the nails, the fewer infectious microorganisms live under them. If you can’t part with your déclassé fake nails on style grounds, do it for the sake of hygiene and public health!

  35. Solange Martinez on July 14, 2021 at 2:58 am

    I’m in my 20s (21) but my baby face make me look more young and people take me less serious whenever i talk etc i want to look more mature and sophisticated

  36. Flor_Us Kpop girl Group X Wjsn Ujung on July 14, 2021 at 2:59 am

    I saw my Auntie who’s at her late 50’s slaying the trend, weari g pink dress and other outfits that only 20’s could wear.. like wow,

  37. Navlene Pandaram on July 14, 2021 at 3:01 am

    I agree with you. Great advice.

  38. Aarti Pitroda on July 14, 2021 at 3:03 am

    Super video Thankyou ❤️

  39. Sandra Kay Zie on July 14, 2021 at 3:04 am

    I think I’ve been wearing 30s style since my 20s…No ripped jeans ever saw my wardrobe 🙂

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  41. Mimi A on July 14, 2021 at 3:06 am

    Ladies wear whatever you want. Honestly. It’s too much pressure to think “i cant wear this cause I am too old”, that is such an sad way to think! If you feel the need to change your style then thats your prerogative but make sure you are doing it for you and not because you think society will judge you for wearing ripped jeans in your 30s.

  42. ⑦ⓐⓦⓐⓐ on July 14, 2021 at 3:07 am

    People who disagree with you just do not want to grow up and are stuck in their 20s. Clothes reflect personality, wearing clothes of a girl in her 20s by a chick in her 30s gives the impression that the 30 old chick has serious issues with accepting herself.

  43. A.W on July 14, 2021 at 3:07 am

    Women in their 30s should stop thinking they are old 🙄. Yes, there are certain things I would not wear, but not because I’m old. Times are changing and so is the perspective that a woman is old at a certain age. I always get that I’m twenty something 😎.

  44. Awards Steaming on July 14, 2021 at 3:08 am

    Your profile pic is extra cute🤙🏿🧡

  45. Ashleigh Van Bergen on July 14, 2021 at 3:11 am

    I actually agree with it all I’m 34 with 4 boys under 10 and the low cut tops and crop tops ripped jeans were my thing before I had my boys when I was in late teens very early 20s but not now I take a leaf out of my mums book abs when she was alive I remember her being very classy and always looked nice especially in her late 30s 40s and 50s till she passed away , I know myself there are definitely certain trends now I can’t get away with wearing same with long acrylic nails I like my style I have now more than any other I have had I feel happy sexy and comfortable all at the same time 😊

  46. Kimberly Perrotis on July 14, 2021 at 3:12 am

    I agree with everything, with the possible exception of mini-skirts. You showed micro-minis, which I don’t think anyone should wear, regardless of age. I think a skirt that is longer than mid-thigh might be ok through the 30s if the legs are good and the wearer feels comfortable in them. Your excellent rules are really just the rules for a classy dress style at any age, and ones that I have used all my life, even as a teenager, I’m now 60, and yes, I will wear skirts 1-2” above my knee, but prefer midi-length. Having a naturally very sexy body (very slender, but full-busted) in my youth, I never wanted to emphasize that, men (especially old, creepy ones) wouldn’t leave me alone, even in my most modest clothing. I wanted to meet men who would look me in the eye, and not just at my bust or legs. I think modesty is just ignored by many women and it’s too bad, because most men would think a body-skimming knit midi dress is sexier than daisy dukes and a bra top, which just shouts “I’m available for sex!”. Who wants to send that message? Good, principled men will be attracted to potential marriage partners, not casual sex. They want a life partner whom they can proudly take to family and business gatherings. Nor did I ever want to look trendy or edgy, I go for classic, feminine (but not girly) and pretty.

  47. Ada Ai on July 14, 2021 at 3:15 am

    Can someone please post this as a list her voice is a rambling nightmare xxx

  48. Kalai Vani on July 14, 2021 at 3:17 am

    Your tips sooo Regal… being a woman in very elegant way. Wow im like it!

  49. Natalie Moriarty on July 14, 2021 at 3:18 am

    I agree with everything you said 🙂 .

  50. Lisa Spall on July 14, 2021 at 3:19 am

    I did the same thing with my hair when I was pregnant last year. I decided I wanted bangs, BIG mistake! 🤣 Thank God I was able to hide them into the rest of my hair in time for labor and delivery. Im 32 now and trying to look more my age, thanks for these tips 😄