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  1. Cindy Alicia on August 30, 2021 at 10:41 pm

    Oke but like I have very thicc ankles (which I hate) so anything longer than my knees will look very weird and out of proportion because of my ankles :/

  2. Deacon Dave Larrabee on August 30, 2021 at 10:41 pm

    The floral purple and gold flowing dress is fantastic, so tasteful

  3. Madhura K on August 30, 2021 at 10:42 pm

    I have to attend a court wedding/ reception next month. What do you suggest? I mean like formal, casual, cocktail dress?

  4. Dissis Missis on August 30, 2021 at 10:43 pm

    Thank you for making this vid – i have a red jumpsuit, do you think it is okay to wear both day n night time?

    Also i have bright blue jumpsuit too – i feel like bright color might be distracting but i don’t want to wear dark or white/nude either. Finding what to wear to a wedding is hard, especially when you are a plus one As a first date!!

  5. Lisa Satterthwaite on August 30, 2021 at 10:43 pm

    Can you please add time stamps for the different types of attire? I would have liked to skip straight to business casual if you had a business casual option

  6. Y K on August 30, 2021 at 10:46 pm

    What if the bride is not wearing white wedding dress?

  7. W H I T N E Y L E A N N A on August 30, 2021 at 10:46 pm

    I was always taught the white rule as well and I feel cream or nude shouldnt be worn. I was also taught that even if its very casual dress code or no dress code type of wedding you should always wear whats appropriate for a wedding.

  8. Bianka Horvath on August 30, 2021 at 10:47 pm

    In Hungary its a NO to wear white, black or red to a wedding.

  9. Lisa~ on August 30, 2021 at 10:48 pm

    Don’t wear white! Only the bride can.Dont wear black either or else it’s more like a funeral. Trust me, alot of people will stare at you probably for wearing those two colours.

  10. lilims123 on August 30, 2021 at 10:51 pm

    I hate dressy casual weddings but I have one coming up so I need ideas 😁

  11. Candy Smith on August 30, 2021 at 10:52 pm

    Any white dress to a wedding is a big fat NO. Black cocktail is fine for evening weddings to me.

  12. Vickie Nguyen on August 30, 2021 at 10:54 pm

    My thing is, if you have to question it…just don’t do it.

  13. Efalonda on August 30, 2021 at 10:54 pm

    I miss polyvore…

  14. Creativity Unleashed on August 30, 2021 at 10:55 pm

    I have a wedding (my first ever) in September and the dress code is pastel, any tips?

  15. 711luvsongs on August 30, 2021 at 10:55 pm

    What’s the name of the song in your intro?

  16. Denise Sheehan on August 30, 2021 at 10:56 pm

    It always seem to end up wearing a floral day dress for the day ceremony and feel wierd wearing a day dress to an evening dinner or vice versa. The navy lace one and the black dress is probably the onlys that suits both.

  17. Payel Kundu on August 30, 2021 at 10:56 pm

    Now just think of an indian wedding….🙊😂

  18. Ramona Downing on August 30, 2021 at 10:57 pm

    I think if the wedding attendant’s are wearing color but not lace it would be alright to wear either of the last two dresses.

  19. Rihanna Rih on August 30, 2021 at 10:58 pm

    Wow! In US wedding dresses are so simple where i’m from in Balkan Europe everyone wears over the top dresses some of them are tacky in a bad way. I’m most likely to wear some gold or Red to weddings since i look the best in those colours. I usually have my formal dresses custommade since i usually don’t like anything in stores like they’re either too tacky for me or too simple
    I did wore white to a wedding but i was like 10 and the bride suggested me and my sister to wear white or baby pink or nude princess dresses

  20. NYAW on August 30, 2021 at 10:58 pm

    Mines just a blue Dress with some pearls

  21. Kathrin Opheiden on August 30, 2021 at 10:58 pm

    I wore white to my cousins wedding cuz nobody told me about it being a no go. But since it was a short and very simple dress i guess it was okay.

  22. meymey somol on August 30, 2021 at 10:59 pm

    You have nice body so whatever you wear it suit you 😌

  23. Christina Del Carmine on August 30, 2021 at 11:00 pm

    I avoid white completely. Some people say to even avoid brighter colors. I say avoid white and the bridal party color and you are good to go. You are right about how some people think differently with how to dress for black tie or even semi formal. I got married back in August and I couldn’t believe the amount of people who in my opinion were a little underdressed. I didn’t feel the need to put a dress code because my invitations I felt sent the message that it’s a little more on the formal side. Most dressed more formal but I still had a good chunk of people underdressed. I really didn’t care how my guests dressed just no white. But I personally would have been more formal if I was a guest to my wedding. I think nowadays people don’t dress up as much to weddings. I always look up the venue and take cues from the invitation if there is no dress code on the invitations.

  24. Michelle Braga Teixeira on August 30, 2021 at 11:03 pm

    Hello! I’m new in your channel and I loved your videos ( I already looked around and I really like the videos options). So, going to the object I need your advice about the weeding dresses. I’m Latina and in my country is OK the guest use black dresses…but I’m not sure about USA weddings specially in summer. Help me if you think is OK to use! The wedding will be in Jully afternoon. Thanks!

  25. SmileKidOFMusic on August 30, 2021 at 11:04 pm

    Love how you were like i try to be able to look cute but lowkey and immediately brought out a bright red jump suit w a bold shoulder

  26. Marie Karole on August 30, 2021 at 11:05 pm

    What about Black pants with a colorful top Casual is that bad? I had a sparkly sleeveless leopard top and black shawl accent .

  27. Inday April on August 30, 2021 at 11:05 pm

    I think If you wear white to someones wedding whether or not u think its ok your going to be hated on by at least 1 person haha.

  28. human dolphin on August 30, 2021 at 11:05 pm

    Thank you so much. I am going to a wedding in a few hours. This helped me decide on my choices. Thank you

  29. Chats Again on August 30, 2021 at 11:06 pm

    No to the last dresses….too close to white

  30. Krista Sears on August 30, 2021 at 11:11 pm

    These are dresses you want to wear to a wedding if you want to look sleazy

  31. Stephanie Jurado on August 30, 2021 at 11:16 pm

    How about a shorter blush lace dress?

  32. shashini fashion world on August 30, 2021 at 11:20 pm

    I am from Sri lanka i love your style dress wowww it’s very nice my dear

  33. REMINISCEtheMEMORIES on August 30, 2021 at 11:21 pm

    Ooh I love the mustard yellow floral print! I’m going to a wedding that starts at 5pm and it doesn’t specify black tie but I searched the location and being inside it looks fancy. Kind of wish it was an outside wedding now but is there any way it can work?

  34. cami on August 30, 2021 at 11:22 pm

    Can we see more non dress attire cause I hate dresses!!

  35. ay99 on August 30, 2021 at 11:23 pm

    I wore a black short strapless dress with sparkle decorations to my cousin’s wedding in Germany.

  36. strayvelvet on August 30, 2021 at 11:24 pm

    in conclusion: you are not the bride (if you are a guest), so wear something that does not have lace and such

  37. Lili mango on August 30, 2021 at 11:25 pm

    No white for a wedding

  38. Marie Karole on August 30, 2021 at 11:25 pm

    What about Cream? My mother in law found a Creamy Angora sweater dress for a November 1991
    wedding as a Guest plus I was 3 months pregnant hiding.

  39. Artsy_Judoka on August 30, 2021 at 11:26 pm

    Thanks for the examples but I’m definitely too autistic for this whole business. Trying to figure out the differences between "dressy casual" and "cocktail attire" makes me want to give up on clothes entirely and become a nudist.

    I think I should just go butch and wear a suit to every formal event.

  40. Mikayla Guillen on August 30, 2021 at 11:28 pm

    Why can’t you wear black to a wedding ?

  41. Swikriti on August 30, 2021 at 11:29 pm

    I can wear that lace white dress because in my country India the bride wears red/yellow

  42. Katie Delight on August 30, 2021 at 11:29 pm

    I hear white, cream, and black are not to be worn at weddings. I chose a nice navy blue off the shoulder dress. It is a barn wedding and I want to dress is down with white or brown wedges.

  43. Lesley Hughes on August 30, 2021 at 11:30 pm

    No white for weddings

  44. DixBrooks on August 30, 2021 at 11:30 pm

    In Mexico the wedding attire is almost always black tie
    -formal, if you don’t wear a full gown you will look so underdressed! It is a shame cause I’m petite and i would love to wear something more like cocktail

  45. Lindsay Spates on August 30, 2021 at 11:32 pm

    Like 2 dresses were flattering on her. Her taste is odd.

  46. Lord Voldemort on August 30, 2021 at 11:33 pm

    The second dress is exactly like my bridesmaid dress.

  47. الحمد لله on August 30, 2021 at 11:34 pm

    I love it really thank you💜💜

  48. D Burns on August 30, 2021 at 11:35 pm

    I would only wear a white dress if the bride was wearing a colored wedding dress like blush or champagne
    Or if she said wear white

  49. Dragonite on August 30, 2021 at 11:37 pm

    Too informal for a wedding and I live in the US. More like cocktail dresses in my opinion😞

  50. Lilly Taggert on August 30, 2021 at 11:39 pm

    When shopping online you will see long dresses for guests of the wedding. Wearing a long dress to a wedding is considered just as bad as wearing white. The bride should be the only one in white and the bride should be the only one in a long dress. Do not wear a floorlength dress to any wedding it doesn’t matter how formal it is or how late in the evening it is. Do not.