Why Men Don't Want To Get Married | Why Marriage Scares 99.9% of Men!

Why Men Don't Want To Get Married | Why Marriage Scares 99.9% of Men!

Are you wondering why men don’t want to get married? What the real reasons behind why they don’t want to invest in that type of commitment are?

Well, the first reason is rooted in fear. Many men are afraid of marriage because they think it represents the loss of their freedom, being confronted by neediness, getting stuck in a routine… When we look at today’s society, we see that 50% of marriages end in divorce, which can explain why men are scared.

You might see marriage as the white dress, the beautiful celebration with your friends, and the romance, but for men it’s seen as a lot of pressure.

So take a look at how marriage has been represented in his life. Did he see his parents divorce? Has he or someone he’s close to gone through a divorce? Is it something that he wants in his future? If your boyfriend has a negative idea about marriage than he’s not going to want it. Looking at his past can explain a lot….

Then take a look at his values. If you can pinpoint what they are, you will be able to figure out what he truly wants. Then you can approach the relationship in a different way and introduce positive changes that will make him see marriage in a different light. More often than not, men are afraid of losing their independence and getting stuck in the routine and conflict, and they don’t see marriage as something that would add value to their life.

But if you can understand the “why” behind it, you will be able to understand what needs to change. A man will want to get married when he has no fears, he feels the relationship is perfect, and you two have projects together!



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  1. Christine Low on July 24, 2021 at 8:54 pm

    I’ve been with my bf for 3.5 years and he said he enjoyed spending time with me but he doesn’t want to get married becoz based on his experience with his parents and friends around( his parents does not have good marriage relationship), and he also scare of losing freedoms where he enjoys me time sometimes…so should I leave him or try to improve this relationship?

  2. LaJette Holland on July 24, 2021 at 8:54 pm


  3. reflux on July 24, 2021 at 8:55 pm

    One of the reasons some men don’t want to get married is because "the one" that they loved broke their heart. Another reason is alot of men are believing all this ‘red pill’ bullshit and end up misogynistic. These men just don’t understand women. The same goes for some women and feminism. Some women are taking it too far, getting taught that all men are the same and they’ll never change, bordering on radical feminism and becoming misandrists. These women don’t understand real men.

    As a man, i’d like to get married and settle down, but dating is getting harder, people are getting offended over little things, getting defensive or taking things personally. Small mistakes are now seen as ‘red flags’ and people aren’t communicating properly over misunderstandings or giving each other the benefit of the doubt or a chance. They just give up too easily and throw a whole relationship away over petty things that could have easily been talked about, setting boundaries, and learning & growing from each other.

  4. M on July 24, 2021 at 8:55 pm

    Western Overweight Entitled Feminist

  5. Macdaddy on July 24, 2021 at 8:55 pm

    Finally a guy that is not kissing butt

  6. Shaun Hensley on July 24, 2021 at 8:56 pm

    Nothing in it for men

  7. Takashi on July 24, 2021 at 8:56 pm

    Most of the good women are abroad… But if u get married and bring them to the western world they will be engrained with toxicity thinking they entitled to more than men. The best choice for men is work hard make ur money and if u really want to get married u live abroad only.

  8. RacistPixel on July 24, 2021 at 8:56 pm

    Only 20s guys want to get married, pick it early girls, dont wait… If you look only for fun with guys you only will find fun, but newer a husband….

  9. Stacey Shomaker on July 24, 2021 at 8:57 pm

    has nothing to with being afraid, it’s the refusal of a bum deal. that’s just logical.

  10. kinster02 on July 24, 2021 at 8:57 pm

    Marriage is the first step to a divorce, freedom and why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.

  11. Achal Sinha on July 24, 2021 at 8:57 pm

    Guys please…

  12. Da Black Man!!!! on July 24, 2021 at 8:59 pm

    When society collapses mass femicide is coming and is planned by the Elites

  13. Vlogging Marc's Tv on July 24, 2021 at 9:02 pm

    "HELLO LADIES" but I am a guy.

  14. simone Grant on July 24, 2021 at 9:04 pm

    They should let the women know up-front and stop taking free sex and home-cooked meals

  15. 2LiveNoob on July 24, 2021 at 9:05 pm

    Because women don’t actually love men.

  16. travelcloudvlogs on July 24, 2021 at 9:05 pm

    After one year relationship he is not ready for marriage.he is step back.he loves me .want to be with me don’t want to apart.what should I do? should I continue to relationship or distant

  17. Robert Hansen on July 24, 2021 at 9:05 pm

    All risks with no rewards, it’s that simple.

  18. sapitron on July 24, 2021 at 9:09 pm

    do not marry
    do not fecundate
    do not cohabitate

  19. Wictoria Olofsson on July 24, 2021 at 9:09 pm

    Low quality men that has committment and consistency phobia to one woman dont want to marry thats the real truth guys!!

  20. V998 on July 24, 2021 at 9:10 pm

    My friend got married and his family paid £250,000 for the wedding and he end up getting divorced in 12 months hahaahah! I will never get married. My parents were married it has been an abusive relationship for the last 40 years. You are effectively locked into the marriage as if you divorce you lose the house, its reputationally bad and you lose the assets you worked hard for. Now think how damaging 40 years of abuse is: your children will be messed up mentally, both people would need decades of costly therapy to recover mentally.

  21. ✨Always attracting great things in2 my life! ✨ on July 24, 2021 at 9:12 pm

    Yes! We were meant to get married! And not sin ! We are sinning too much for the “fear “ of men not wanting to get married and commit to one ☝🏻 woman 🙈😓🙄 ridiculous!
    Men don’t want to commit because they want their cake 🍰 and eat it two . Nah it doesn’t work that way . That’s why you just don’t marry the first person you meet or attracted to 😄 take your time to know someone . And not marry just to get in bed with that person . 😉

  22. ImGumbyDamnit on July 24, 2021 at 9:13 pm

    Men: 50% of marriages end in divorce (which the women initiate). You think the other half is happy? They’re miserable, sexless, and about to be penniless.

  23. CelestialWoodway on July 24, 2021 at 9:14 pm

    Because men have grown up and realized all the romantic movies, songs, poems, etc. are bullshit and not reality.

  24. Half Eaten Media on July 24, 2021 at 9:14 pm

    Woman don’t feel like they need men. They want kids and that’s about it. Men don’t get as much out of a marriage and risk losing everything they worked for making them a less desirable bachelor.

  25. Erica Reign on July 24, 2021 at 9:16 pm

    Great👏👍 Explanation

  26. L B on July 24, 2021 at 9:17 pm

    Kramer from Seinfeld said it best about marriage, "They’re man made prisons. You’re doing time."

  27. Hate lord No on July 24, 2021 at 9:18 pm

    This guy is a walking stereotype lmao

  28. V Law on July 24, 2021 at 9:21 pm

    Every man has either been through the family court meat grinder himself, or has seen enough other men go through it to know it’s a bad idea.

  29. T bone on July 24, 2021 at 9:21 pm

    The women’s movement ruined everything that was nice in America.

  30. Brida thomus on July 24, 2021 at 9:23 pm

    My boyfriend has no problem being exclusive.. he feels this is right and wants a relationship but I’m in a place to want marriage and the more I tell him about what I want.. it scares me and he throws his hands up in the air.. he’s very capable of taking decisions in big areas of life . So I’m stuck as to why he’s is so closed to this aspect. Yes his parents marriage is bad like most.. he had a long relationship previously that ended badly… But what can I do to show a good marriage that’s possible . I’m stuck

  31. Edwin B on July 24, 2021 at 9:24 pm

    Censors get cancer.

  32. Tony X on July 24, 2021 at 9:25 pm

    "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free"?

  33. Robert Filger on July 24, 2021 at 9:26 pm

    The next time you think about getting married just find a woman you don’t like and buy her a house.

  34. Armando Broncas on July 24, 2021 at 9:27 pm

    Dude cut the bullshit!!! There is no benefit for a man anymore.

  35. The happy moment on July 24, 2021 at 9:28 pm

    And 99 of break ups relationship because men don’t want to get married lol 😂 and woman feel like wasting her life with an unsure dude. God we need help please

  36. Brigitte L Jones on July 24, 2021 at 9:29 pm

    Marriage makes sense to a guy when he is with a woman whom he’d TRUST to remain happy with very long term, establish some shared economic resources as a secure future base and potentially have a child or pets with.THIS APPLIES IF THE WOMAN HAS A CAREER, AN INCOME AT LEAST EQUAL TO HIS AND CAN BE PREDICTED TO SUSTAIN THIS REGARDLESS OF HAVING CHILDREN.
    It then makes the marriage contract worthwhile in recognising some of his rights to any child, property, decisions re spouse in coma etc..It can outweigh the assumed negatives re marital obligations since defacto status gives less clear cut rights, but keeps the most penalising responsibilities.Alex Claremont’s advice can be good for these situations to facilitate reassurance to guy otherwise on the way.

    A woman has no hope where a man over 30+ demonstrates he has andstill only works to support his passion for travel, hikes or clips or runs or motor bike trips, update on tech equipment, with main friends are similar types as him.We assume she loves their connection and some of the travel and hikes. IF she loves what he does the same with no desire for kids etc., no need to change their paradise. Not proving anything worthwhile to drag such to the alter, better appreciate what you share. Doesn’t matter when marriage happens or if not in this situation.

    If she HOPES TO MOVE TO KIDS, STABILITY, GETTING MARRIAGE ETC.,IT’S REALLY SMARTER TO MOVE ON TO ANOTHER AND LEAVE PETER PAN TO HIS LOST BOYS PARADISE.Just like for Wendy there was a limited time and place for Peter Pan encounter to be a real plus, but then moving on.

  37. The happy moment on July 24, 2021 at 9:29 pm

    No worry.nowaday woman don’t want to get married too because it’s too complicated for her life.it better to be healthy and love herself first

  38. Gauge on July 24, 2021 at 9:30 pm

    Marriage is not about men. It’s a place where men have to make someone else happy. BTW womens happiness is always invisible and somewhere out in front of them. It’s never achievable. Like a shark feeding.

  39. Swift Karma on July 24, 2021 at 9:32 pm

    Women dont get married. You will end up being a care taker for someone who doesn’t value their health. If you end up putting him in a nusring home then you will have to go visit him while he waits to die while you are on the hook as the wife. Woman can make an argument against marriage too. How about everyone just do whatever they want and what’s best for them.

  40. Sean Mathews on July 24, 2021 at 9:36 pm

    Marriage is the first step to divorce.

  41. Mgtow on July 24, 2021 at 9:36 pm

    50% of marriages end in divorce, 70% of them initiated by women. They get most of everything following the divorce, including the kids. Women get sole custody of the kids around 80% of the time, and the father loses almost all his rights to those children, except for the financial connection. Yet you blame men for refusing to play this rigged game?

  42. Saurabh Shah on July 24, 2021 at 9:39 pm

    Just have casual relationships, why marry?

  43. shahin on July 24, 2021 at 9:41 pm

    Book followers in our religion, especially women are more safe in marriage.. Men are also safe bkoz they got liberty to marry four ladies at a period of time but equal rights justification in everything is abide in his relationships or married ladies attached to him. In one sentence men and women both are liberated with righteous rights who practices book.

  44. メルウィン59 on July 24, 2021 at 9:42 pm

    Originally, I intended to go for it. But because of what happened in early 2010 with one of my relatives, my aunt who died of a heart attack in a hospital and in later years seeing what marriage is about and experiencing other events, As a result of those events, as of 2015, I decided to choose not to marry. To which In my opinon, is the best decision of my life, for my safety and I have no obligations from nobody.

  45. Jack Harper on July 24, 2021 at 9:46 pm

    I’ve been there done that. She left after one year and stole all of my money in family courtZ Fuck that shit!

  46. Riz Z on July 24, 2021 at 9:48 pm

    Use woman for sex only no need to marry them

  47. Onion Potato on July 24, 2021 at 9:49 pm

    Something is going on. Men are rejecting marriage. I know half a dozen good-looking, well-educated, personable, athletic men with good jobs, aged 35-45, who are still not married. They have weighed the risks of marriage in our female supremacist society and decided against it.

  48. Ellen Morse on July 24, 2021 at 9:49 pm

    Love is the sickness,…………Marriage is the cure.

  49. culversketch on July 24, 2021 at 9:50 pm

    Marriage is just . . . so unnecessary.

  50. Lil Pink Bubbles on July 24, 2021 at 9:52 pm

    Marriage is not great for women either. Cook, clean, grow up a man. No thank you.